How do I Deal with Boredom

 All of us have reached a stage and age where we are struggling with excess time and resources at hand. Most of us are replete with abundant resources of time money people to help and the social and emotional support system.

We are abundant with men's material and their resources at hand. We also have abundant time.

How many kitty parties, how many clubs, how many parties, and how many social and religious engagements will I engage in? Although there is a pull and time towards all of these still there is extra time and resources to spend time.

So, am I spending time meaningfully and with a true sense of joy and satisfaction or am I just killing it for the sake of I have nothing else to do.

What are my evocations, my pulls that make me spend time meaningfully?

Meaningful also is a very subjective phenomenon. Something that can be meaningful for one can be a total waste of time and useless for the other.

So how do I generate that sense of meaningfulness which belongs to me and not the outer context?

The context also evokes you and pulls you in various forms and directions for one it could be as simple as cooking, baking, or playing a sport. For some others, it could be as deep as a spiritual journey, intellectual conversation, responsibility to the world, and evocative colleagues.

If I were to reflect on my stage of life I seem to be getting caught in something to do or nothing to do. There is a lot of confusion and dilemmas as to what is my real calling?

At a point in time children and relatives also give you a saturation of engagement so what do I do?

Parents too are dead or mostly a burden in their stage of life. 


Author:-Dr. Nayana Shah (Ph.D.)

           Director, Manthan

             Ahmedabad

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