Are you moving towards Death or enjoying Life in its fullest.




All of us live a circle of life where we wish to feel alive through different kinds of engagement, activities, pleasures, and desires.

Most of the time we get trapped into the syndrome of least we enjoy because life is too short.

There is almost a guilt feeling if you are unable to enjoy life and get pulled by frivolous activities.

We celebrate birthdays in the fullest ways. However, we do not realize that each day makes us older and closer to death.

At the end of life circle, I shall not go into hell or heaven but definitely, I am answerable to my own conscious and own self as to what have I done of this life that I have received.

Have I wasted time on things that do not matter, things that do not make a difference, or which are only for consumption?

In this spectrum of life and death, where do I pitch myself so that I do not feel shameful or guilty for not living up to any values or visions?

As we grow up in life span every philosopher, psychologist, every human theory mentions that human beings evolve at different phases or stages of life.

Since we are organic beings we are not static in any form but continuously evolve in different dynamic phases.

As I grow older and reach higher levels of the self and the being do I reflect or even think on what I have done to this life which has been so preciously given or do I remain an animal with no thoughts or feelings.

Author:-Dr. Nayana Shah (Ph.D.)

           Director, Manthan

             Ahmedabad 





 

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